6.24.2014

ethan's birthday interview: age 3

I started the birthday interview ritual last year (see last year's interview here) and am excited to keep it going until Ethan is 18. I'm sure I'll have quite a few years of obnoxious, smart-ass answers that I'm weirdly looking forward to because I think annoying teenagers are awesome. I may be singing another tune when I actually have an annoying teenager, but right now I think they're funny. Anyway, this year I added a few more questions to the interview since Ethan is really talking and can finally answer all of the questions I'd originally wanted to ask year after year -- though the answers are still adorably nonsensical. As usual, I had Ethan's birthday interview up on display at his birthday party but now I get to share it here! I'll be doing little detail posts over the week while I get my post-party act together (shut up, that's a thing).

A Birthday Interview With Ethan

Age 3

Favorite thing about birthdays: Birthday cake is for eating!

Favorite memory from the past year: I like to play tot school. It is my favorite.

Best Friends: Daddy is my best friend. He goes to work. And mommy and Chase and Grayson and Brixtyn and Darci and Mr. Lee are my friends, too. They are nice friends. I have a lot of nice friends. And Miss Jenn is my friend to swim with. I am a nice friend, too.

Favorite color: Blue!

Favorite book: Curious George At The Zoo!

Favorite food: Macaroni and cheese when the macaroni is noodles.

Favorite movie: Nothing. Nothing is.

Favorite TV show: Doc McStuffins is. She’s a doctor now.

Favorite song: Paradise City! And Journey To Ernie. Big Bird sings that when he finds Ernie when he is hiding. And Poison Oak. My mommy sings that, not Big Bird. He doesn't sing Poison Oak.

Favorite Place To Go: At the science museum we see a jellyfish with eight arms and eight legs! And at the zoo. I like to go to the zoo. Are we going to the zoo now?

Favorite Thing To Do: I make sculptures with Legos that are blocks. And I get tattoos that have Ninja Turtles on them. Can I have an M&M now?

Favorite animal: Zebras! Grandma has zebras on her TV.

Favorite thing to wear: I have a shirt with a dinosaur on it. See? I am wearing it.

When I grow up I want to be a: Scarecrow!

6.23.2014

capt. ethan is three!

(Like usual, peek into Ethan's 1st Birthday Party and Ethan's 2nd Birthday Party!)

Yesterday was Ethan's 3rd birthday and his birthday party, too! I never do his parties on the same day as his actual birthday but it sort of worked out that way this year. Regardless, he didn't mind -- he had so much fun. Before he went to sleep, he said it was the "best birthday party ever!" and that made every last bit of stress and planning worth it! I will say there wasn't that much stress this year, aside from my usual running-out-of-time-to-set-up freak-outs (in which I wasn't actually running out of time to set up, but it always just feels that way) -- the party was a nice distraction from everything else going on. With everything else that had happened recently, all I wanted was to give Ethan an amazing party surrounded by all of his friends and so much love and happiness that his face would hurt from smiling so much. That's what he got and that, too, made it all so worth it.

We chose for the second year in a row to do his birthday party at our My Gym in Coconut Creek. We love My Gym parties! We will probably never not do a My Gym Coconut Creek party until Ethan expresses an opinion on wanting it somewhere else (likely not anytime soon) or My Gym places a ban on our parties because I go a little crazy around party time. ;)

I have detail posts coming soon but for now, here is a gigantic assortment of photos from Capt. Ethan's Pirate Celebration!

The food table set-up details:

Trays were clear plastic trays from Deals ($1 a piece) that I spray-painted black (only on the underside so the paint doesn't touch the food!). Red and white striped plastic tablecloths were also from Deals (who are owned by Dollar Tree, though not sure how the inventory varies) for $1. Treasure chests were pinatas from Deals -- I used an exacto knife to cut an opening on the top and filled it with craft foam from Wal-Mart. Gold coins are actually Hanukkah gelt -- 5 bags for $1! Pirate ship cake and cake-pops made by my best friend. We have Ethan's 3rd birthday slideshow playing on my husband's Blackberry Playbook on a stand on the table as well (because the best part about being a parent is thinking everyone else wants to watch 12 minutes of footage of your child as much as you do!). Plates, napkins, silverware, silverware holder are all also from Deals. For a 10 a.m. party, we chose bagels again for the second year in a row and I had the brilliant idea to turn them into boats (making sails is not my forte but hopefully it got the point across!). For the second year in a row, bagels are from Bagels & A Whole Lot More in Coral Springs who not only make the yummiest bagels ever, but are super accommodating and relaxed about order pick-up and slicing them into quarters for tiny hands!

Last year my cake-making best friend had the brilliant idea to reduce balloon waste by tying the balloons onto each individual party favor. That way each kid gets to take a balloon home and you get the win-win of still having a beautiful bunch of balloons on display. So, we did the same thing this year. I couldn't find black paper bags anywhere locally so I ended up having to order some super cheap ones on Amazon (they were, like, 40 bags for $5). The problem was they were such a cheap material that it didn't take much for them to wrinkle or tear so that drove me a little nuts during transporting the items from home to My Gym. Still, I think they came out cute. I tried to write each child's name in gold and silver glitter glue and bought so many different brands the shades didn't match up exactly. I know. No one noticed except me. ;)

I was super depressed about having to wear maternity clothes to Ethan's party or having my regular clothes fit super awkwardly so my best friend helped us make some pretty sweet pirate shirts to wear to Ethan's party.

Mr. Lee has been Ethan's My Gym teacher since he was eight weeks old! He's basically known him for most of his life at this point, so it was awesome to have Mr. Lee there to celebrate Ethan's party with him (and Mr. Lee is well-equipped for handling Ethan's moods)! We love Mr. Lee!

We had Jake and Capt. Hook come to celebrate Ethan's party! The funny part was, Ethan had no idea who either character was before his party. He loves costumed characters (usually) so we really wanted someone pirate-themed to come and, well, Jake was the obvious candidate. My dad insisted Captain Hook was cool, too. I tried for weeks before Ethan's party to get him interested in Jake on TV or in books but I had no luck. When they walked out, Ethan yelled "make those pirates go away!" and I think about 50% of the kids were in hysterics screaming and crying! This is the second year in a row we've used Character Adventures for birthday characters (we had Curious George come last year) and they are so awesome. They know how to perfectly handle even the most terrified child and, after a little bit, everyone was getting their pictures taken with Jake and Capt. Hook or playing games with them. After Jake the pirate gave Ethan a slice of cake (and fed it to him!), Ethan changed his tune about the pirates and then was sad when they had to leave. Of course, now he loves Jake and Captain Hook!

It was an amazing day and Ethan had so much fun! I cannot believe my little pirate is three years old! We are so grateful for everyone who helped make Ethan's day such a super special one. This is the first year he actually understood birthdays and parties and it makes my heart happy that he went to sleep feeling so special and loved.

My Gym - My Gym Coconut Creek
Pirate characters - Character Adventures
Bagels - Bagels & A Whole Lot More
Ethan's Birthday Shirt - The Red Thread

Oh, and the smartest thing I do each year is put the picture-taking in someone else's hands. My sister and her friend are always my super special photographers! Teenagers work cheap and they aren't above wearing silly accessories! ;)

6.22.2014

three.

My beautiful little boy,

You are three years old and I can hardly believe it. For so long I let myself dwell over the loss of your babyhood, offering my finest pouty-face every time you woke up a good deal taller and wiser than the day before. These days things are a little different. I find life within your own life and joy in watching you grow. I am eager to breathe you in every day of your life and watch you grow into the person you are slowly becoming before my very eyes. I love who you are, who you have always been, who you are becoming.

Something new to age three is my ability to spot our shared characteristics. Since your birth, of course, people have loved to comment on who you look like -- "the spitting image of his daddy" or "oh, he looks just like his mommy!" -- but now it's so much more. What I mean is, I can now see so much of our personalities in you, too. You share your daddy's problem-solving spirit, a mind for logistics and well-laid plans and an unwavering idea of what is right. You share my sensitivity and emotional heart; finding comfort in closeness, completely well-versed in describing the intricacies of human emotion. While I can spot bits and pieces of us in you, there is so much of you that is so incredible and unique. It feels so easy to just sit and watch you with wonder. At three, you seem so much wiser than I am at nearly thirty and I have to wonder where you inherit your wisdom from, your ability to see the world for what it is.

You are still shy, though I've watched you come out of your shell slowly, and a little more as each day passes. You are slowly finding your niche and your confidence and your place in this world though I fear you are so much like me and this will take more work than it does for most people. If you take away nothing else from our early years together, I want you to remember that you will always have me and you will never be alone. I wonder how it was possible for so much time to pass since your birth, how my chubby little infant is now one year away from Pre-K and only two short years away from kindergarten. I am not ready for this, for any of it, but I will find peace in the ability to watch you grow. Every growing pain, every new milestone, they are reminders of life's fragility and I will never let you shatter, I will never let you fall.

At three, you are more like one of the grown-ups than the other roughhousing kids on the playground and I so very much cherish our talks and our time together, the way you create games where others would just see scattered toys or sticks and leaves. Your imagination is bigger and brighter than the sun and it is one of my greatest hopes that you never let it dim, that you never let life dull the vastness of your creativity. I often joke that you are my keeper, reminding me when it's time to eat or when I've left my wallet in the car again. You are so mindful of everything and everyone around you and you've helped me to open my own eyes again when stepping out into a world in which I thought I had nothing left to learn. You are constantly teaching me and challenging me.

I love your laugh and your gentle spirit. I love the companion that you are, my partner in all of our daily adventures. I love your heart, how pure and sweet it is. I even love your stubbornness. My pride in you overwhelms me every day.

And so, my sweet little man, you are three. I hope you have a fantastic birthday and realize how much love surrounds you, how many lives you touch, how many people stand behind you. You are my best friend, the love of my life, my yellow bird.

While technically I gave you life, the truth is it was you who gave me life.

Happy third birthday, my little lovebug. May your day be as bright as you have made all of our days since the day you were born three years ago.

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